The Bauhauswife Blog

Yolande Clark
Birth is Not A Learning Experience

Birth is Not A Learning Experience

Birth is not a learning experience for others.   Birth is about you, and your baby, and creating the optimal conditions for the transformation you and your child will enact together.  Resist the urge to invite people to your birth as a “gift” to your sister, or to teach your friend that home birth is safe, or to prove to your mother than you can do it.   I can relate...

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Stop Trying, Start Giving Up

Stop Trying, Start Giving Up

I get it, I really do. As a mother whose babies have all decided to be born at between 42-44 weeks’ gestation, I absolutely understand how difficult those last weeks and days of pregnancy can be, especially when we are bombarded on all sides by individuals and cultural messaging that tells us that babies need to be evicted from the womb based on an arbitrary timeline!  The thing is though, peaceful, ecstatic births don’t come from trying. They come from...

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I Could *Never* Have a Freebirth!

I Could *Never* Have a Freebirth!

I could never do that! I hear this from so many women, when I tell them I’ve given birth to 7 babies at home--and especially when I say that the last 5 of those were freebirths, which means I had no midwife or doula or other formal helper present. But I’m here to tell you,  Yes you could.  

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