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Yolande Clark
Enough Love to go Around?

Enough Love to go Around?

The end of August feels like change, but of course, everything changes, all the time.  What did you do last summer? I went to the beach, made some art, did a lot of birth work, edited part of what is proving to be an enormous book, and nursed my beautiful baby, Ignatius, who is delightful, sweet, smart, serious, funny, cuddly, and lovely, and astonishingly, two months old already.  We also spent the last week hosting two houseguests—the beloved young children of one of my very best friends, who is on a healing journey and needed a break from full-on mothering. ...

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Yolande Clark
"Nurse Induces Labour Without Consent". So?

"Nurse Induces Labour Without Consent". So?

Recently, in my province of New Brunswick, Canada, a nurse in the city of Moncton was recently "fired over suspicions that she gave [pitocin] to patients without their consent." Six friends sent me the CTV article the morning it was published. I guess I'm supposed to be outraged. And I am. It's horrifying. Without their consent!!!! The thing is, I've been outraged about this for twenty years.  Because the “consent” medical personnel require to administer pitocin “legitimately” is almost always extracted from women through coercion: either under extreme duress, or manipulated out of them with lies about its necessity and...

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Yolande Clark
Free Miscarriage

Free Miscarriage

"Women were made for birth and life and death. In the moment of miscarriage, birth and life and death come through us."--Kristen Swanson, quoted in an article by Angela Garbes titled "What I Gained from Having a Miscarriage" published in The Stranger, 2016 I knew in the culmination of love that night, that it had happened—that all the everything had shifted with the arrival of a tiny spark, a new beginning.  In that one electric second, you came to be, swimming into me on a wave of ecstasy. Before You, I was free—solitary and structured, focused and intent— now I’m...

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Yolande Clark
Husband or Partner at a Freebirth? Forget Education—Surender & Serve

Husband or Partner at a Freebirth? Forget Education—Surender & Serve

It is so inspiring to encounter men who openly admit that they were scared, ignorant, and apprehensive going to their partner's freebirth…and that they sat back and supported her anyway. Successful freebirth hinges on embracing the flow of birth in all its wild wisdom, with the birthing woman at the centre of the vortex. The essential premise of freebirth and its inherent safety is founded on the understanding that birth works best without interference, and that only the woman giving birth can have any authority or insight into her own birth process.  When a person other than the mother feels authorized...

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