The Bauhauswife Blog — Variations of Normal

Don't Induce--Smart Babies Choose Their Birthdays

Don't Induce--Smart Babies Choose Their Birthdays

As you may know, all seven of my babies have decided to be born at between 42-44 weeks of gestation.  I’m so grateful to have been in a position to honour their timelines. But gosh, this is very hard to do in a culture in which we’re programmed into rushing and busy-ness literally before we’re even born! It’s a rarity to find a woman who isn’t convinced that there is a reason to submit to induction—whether via a pitocin drip, or through bizarre and counterproductive at-home induction rituals involving climbing the stairs, castor oil, a plate of curry, or prescribed...

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Stop Trying, Start Giving Up

Stop Trying, Start Giving Up

I get it, I really do. As a mother whose babies have all decided to be born at between 42-44 weeks’ gestation, I absolutely understand how difficult those last weeks and days of pregnancy can be, especially when we are bombarded on all sides by individuals and cultural messaging that tells us that babies need to be evicted from the womb based on an arbitrary timeline!  The thing is though, peaceful, ecstatic births don’t come from trying. They come from...

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